Timeline for How to reject the job offer from this desperate manager diplomatically?
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| Jun 9, 2021 at 7:26 | comment | added | SherlockHolmesKePapa | @FlorianCastelain CTC means Cost to Company and LPA means Lakhs per annum. In India, 10 lakhs INR = 1 Million INR. | |
| Jun 8, 2021 at 14:12 | comment | added | Itération 122442 | What does CTC and LPA mean ? | |
| Jun 8, 2021 at 5:54 | vote | accept | SherlockHolmesKePapa | ||
| Jun 5, 2021 at 19:57 | history | became hot network question | |||
| Jun 5, 2021 at 17:31 | comment | added | Fattie | @WarWithSelf "yes, you are right" music to my ears, heh! One really important thing to internalize, WWS. Don't forget that the majority of humans suffer this problem. I will amaze you, even young Fattie suffered this problem. Old Fattie certainly does not suffer this problem. Don't beat yourself up over being an enabler. Being an enabler is like not yet having having pubic hair. If you're 8 years old and you have no pubic hair, you wouldn't beat yourself up over having no pubic hair. You'd say "well this is common, and in a few years I'll have plenty of pubic hair."You can do it! | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 17:24 | history | edited | SherlockHolmesKePapa | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Jun 5, 2021 at 15:45 | answer | added | Egor | timeline score: 7 | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 15:04 | review | Close votes | |||
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| Jun 5, 2021 at 14:57 | comment | added | SherlockHolmesKePapa | @Fattie yes, you are right. I really need to stop falling for this emotional drama, especially in a corporate world. I am slowly learning this skill from experiences. A lot of people has told me in the past not to give this much importance to emotional drama which people create in professional environment. | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 14:54 | comment | added | Fattie | @WarWithSelf, an issue comes up a lot on this list: if you feel or even notice "emotional" content coming from the other party, that is really on you. One must not be "an enabler," as they say. You really must "as a person" so to speak, learn to just ignore emotional crap from others. If a client or supplier sends me some "emotions", the chance of me even noticing such idiocy is equal to the chance that the Sun will suddenly turn in to an enormous pink flamingo via quantum probability. You really have to toughen up - be like Fattie :) | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 14:17 | answer | added | Captain Emacs | timeline score: 1 | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 14:09 | comment | added | mxyzplk | “No” is a complete sentence, why do you feel like you have to justify it to anyone? | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 14:09 | comment | added | Captain Emacs | It's not the finance, it's the topic. Don't give a CTC hint if you are not going to work for this guy no matter what. If you are prepared to work for him for a given CTC, don't make a decision of what they can or cannot pay. | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 12:33 | comment | added | Fattie | You were on the right track mentioning money but you were not specific enough. I've explained in an answer. | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 12:32 | answer | added | Fattie | timeline score: 2 | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 12:21 | answer | added | Benjamin | timeline score: 2 | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 12:15 | answer | added | Denis G. Labrecque | timeline score: 2 | |
| S Jun 5, 2021 at 12:14 | history | suggested | doppelgreener |
this question isn't about a job search, but it may relate to India's cultural practices for this situation
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| Jun 5, 2021 at 12:06 | review | Suggested edits | |||
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| Jun 5, 2021 at 12:05 | comment | added | Helena | You already rejected this guy in a diplomatic way, there is nothing more for you to do. | |
| Jun 5, 2021 at 11:56 | history | asked | SherlockHolmesKePapa | CC BY-SA 4.0 |