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Nov 4, 2015 at 12:43 comment added Konerak Another possibility is that she's just using this as an excuse to fire you. Maybe she has another reason (her cousin wants a job?), but needs an excuse - any excuse. If you really want to try anything, I'd send apologies by mail, explaining what happened, how she took it, that it's a normal, regular term... and CC her boss.
Oct 28, 2015 at 14:48 comment added Wesley Long @LightnessRacesinOrbit: You can't fight crazy. This lady is completely nuts. Just because she's wrapped her own personal neuroses around a "worthy cause" doesn't mean she's worth putting up with. Just walk away. There are lots of opportunities for talented people to do work that helps underserved communities. Working for crazy people will leave you jaded and bitter, and then you have TWO people who aren't doing any good for anybody.
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Oct 23, 2015 at 16:09 comment added Cort Ammon @LightnessRacesinOrbit Honestly, if the situation got hot enough, your comment might be effective in rebuilding trust by putting the focus on helping people.
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Oct 23, 2015 at 15:18 comment added Dave Frankly she's the one with no empathy or critical thought capacity if she doesn't understand the different terms speech communities use. She sounds a little too unreasonable and haughty to understand this though, so I'd work for a non-profit that is not only committed to helping those in need, but can do it with some professional, intelligent, approaches and mature interaction.
Oct 23, 2015 at 15:18 comment added enderland @MartinJames those off by 1 errors... get you every time :( RIP.
Oct 23, 2015 at 15:17 comment added Martin James Unfortunately, this contact crazy means to have the freezing-to-death homeless count increased by one.
Oct 23, 2015 at 14:39 comment added Lightness Races in Orbit Ah, yes. Good point. Now we're talking!
Oct 23, 2015 at 14:38 comment added enderland @LightnessRacesinOrbit if that's Ed's goal there are plenty of other organizations that would love his help.
Oct 23, 2015 at 14:35 comment added Lightness Races in Orbit No, I certainly wouldn't want to. But "wants" aren't all there is to life; I may consider sucking it up and doing the work anyway if it helped 200 people not freeze to death overnight.
Oct 23, 2015 at 14:35 comment added enderland @LightnessRacesinOrbit would YOU want to work for a client who distrusted you and wanted to get you fired after the first meeting over a basic terminology issue? I sure wouldn't.
Oct 23, 2015 at 14:34 comment added Lightness Races in Orbit Mm... but this is a contract for a non-profit helping homeless people. I'm not sure it's particularly adult to walk away from such a noble cause over such a petty squabble. Helping the homeless doesn't always have to be beneficial for you.
Oct 23, 2015 at 14:19 history answered enderland CC BY-SA 3.0