Came a bit out of the blue:

  • Line manager is upset I am asking people for work and not going to directly to him. My work load has lightened considerably and have taken a pro-active approach when I am not able to get hold of him.

  • He has suddenly asked me to give him my sick days so that he can update the system.

  • Less receptive to my ideas, whereas before he was encouraging. Now when I am going out of my way to do work, he shrugs it off.

  • Performance review is coming up, he has asked me to send feedback to everybody I have worked with, everyone has returned with positive feedback, now he is asking me to ask them to find reasons to be critical.

  • As a new joiner, I am being given tasks at times where I am just expected to not ask questions and pick it up when I'm meant to be shadowing.

Generally feels like a bit of tension for reasons I have no idea, well liked with the rest of the team, and have not heard any complaints only praises for my quality of work. Not feeling very comfortable right now.

Am I being micromanaged, or is there something going on that I am missing?


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This doesn't sound like micromanagement, it sounds like a manager trying to make sure a new employee is trained properly and in the right order.

He likely had a training plan set up for you, and by seeking additional tasks, he has no idea where you are in terms of competence.

Since he is soliciting a critique of your skills, positive and negative, it sounds like he is looking for an accurate gauge of your skills and progression.

Look at it from his perspective. What happens to him if someone trained you incorrectly, and something goes wrong? Who gets the blame? Not the new guy but the manager who was charged in seeing he was trained properly.

Normally, I say to people, "When there is no work, find work", but in your case I will make an exception because you are supposed to be learning.

In the future, go to your manager first, even if it is just to ask for permission to get work from other people. That way, you are still showing initiative.

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    Got you, I have apologized to him, he told me to not dwell on it.
    – bobo2000
    Mar 6, 2018 at 16:43

No, this is not micro-management, however I can see how the situation can be confusing to you. After all, you're simply trying to help.

The problem is that the resources (your co-workers) that are probably best fit to handle certain problems or projects are already being utilized and your manager doesn't want to disrupt the flow of the projects already in progress.

After all, even if your co-workers were to find something for you to do that's completely unrelated to what they're doing, it's not theirs to decide how your time is spent so if you receive tasks from them they're in one way or another managing you, causing a certain conflict of roles, also it disrupts timelines of up-coming projects that you may have been supposed to handle in the near future.

Managers are busy people and often have a full schedule of meetings, so the best way to be in contact with them in a way that respects their time and gives you the best chance of receiving feedback from him is to give him updates via email on your work-load. When you realize that you're about to run out of work you should email your manager and say that you expect to complete task X and Y in Z days and ask what you should work on next.

If you find yourself completely out of tasks, notify your manager via email and say that you're out of work and need something new to work on. You should use the time until you get a response wisely to learn something that will help you in your work and career path. Using idle time to sharpen your skills, i.e. reading articles, watching tutorials, etc, is perfectly acceptable as it makes you more valuable, instead of doing something that may not be urgent at all or useful to you in terms of experience. Tell your manager that you'll be using the time until he replies to study D but you're looking forward to more work. You can state your interest in working on a specific project that you have in mind as a suggestion if there's nothing urgent on the backlog, but don't push it.

Concerning some of your other questions, don't take it too personally if your opinions on certain matters don't always make it to the top as you're still learning the ropes and people with more experience than you probably have a better idea on certain topics, that doesn't mean that your input is being ignored. Just continue growing and your input will be more valuable with time.

Then there are the critical feedback points, I think your manager wants to find some topics that you can work on as milestones for the next review after this one. It's common for a manager and an employee to find 1-3 topics, tasks or milestones, that the employee should meet so your performance can somewhat be measured. I think the approach he's using to finding these aspects that you need to work on quite inefficient and awkward but I don't see any other reasonable reasons for this.

Until you can recognize a deeper pattern, don't worry to much about it or think that you're being targeted for doing something wrong. However, I don't quite understand about your situation with the sick days so you'd need to elaborate before making a comment on that.

  • Thanks, I might be getting paranoid especially when suddenly asking about sick record. He didn’t seem to care about recording it before.
    – bobo2000
    Mar 6, 2018 at 18:28

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