Recently, I had a few disagreements with two of my peers, regarding various work issues. The two are quite close and obviously discuss things privately. One is male, one female.
Last week, I had a private conversation with the male colleague and cleared the air a bit and settled some of our differences, but during our conversation he mentioned some things that the female colleague did not like that I was doing, and told me to change. My suspicion is that the woman asked the guy to have a talk with me and clear her issues as well.
Should I confront the woman and tell her that if she has any problem with me, she should speak to me personally and try to resolve the issues, as otherwise I cannot know what to fix? Or should I just ignore the matter and just carry on, making any necessary changes to the way I do my work?