Or am I too sensitive? A software company has very mixed Glassdoor reviews and several specifically call out narcisisstic behavior by the CEO. One review even used the term "grooming" behavior, i.e., subtly training the employees to accept being treated like sh*t.
I just discovered an interview preparation page on their site. Some excerpts:
Our success depends on hiring people who are truly A-players. ...we've built a proprietary interview process that is very different from what you may be used to.
...our process is designed to very quickly separate the highest caliber candidates from the folks who are simply average...
Interviews are recorded and additional staff often participate. The interviewer will dive straight into a set of challenging questions... The interview is very fast paced; you'll be expected to supply answers off the top of your head, without pausing to look anything up.
Our standards for this process are extremely high and only about 10% of interviewees will make it to the end of the phone interview. We end interviews as soon as it becomes clear that the decision will be a no-hire. If this happens to you, please don't take it personally; it's not necessarily a judgment about you, but rather of how well you fit with our current needs. You are welcome to re-apply at a later date.
...We also enjoy role-playing questions where we give you an issue to troubleshoot and see how you would go about solving it. For these, we will continually change the circumstances to challenge you...
...use this rule of thumb: if you're still on the phone with us, it's going well...
...If you make it through to the end, you will then have the opportunity to ask all the questions you'd like...
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To me, it looks like the grooming starts right here, at the first contact. Because: I see interviews as a two-way street. I'm looking to see if there's a meeting of the minds, so to speak. What do you all think?