After work, my co-workers usually go to grab a coffee or some drinks. They all go together, and I was invited only a couple of times. I have been employed there for a couple of months now. I would like to have a good relationship with them, so what can I do to be included more often?
A couple of times I went with them and it was really awkward. I didn’t really know what to talk about with them or how to join in on the conversation, so it would be less awkward. Personally, I am reserved, self-conscious, and socially awkward, so sometimes I don’t know what to say.
What can I do, and how must I behave to make them accept me more in their social circle?