I was working with a company in NY and took a promotion last year in Chicago. I am trying to move back to NY to be with my fiancé and the job has agreed to transfer me but back into my older position (I will be taking a slight pay decrease and working odd hours). The transfer will not take place until the end of September, and they won’t be paying for my relocation. I had also been interviewing with other companies while waiting to see if this transfer was possible. After finding out about my transfer, I received an offer for a better position, salary and company and don’t know how to go about my resignation. Is it wrong to take this offer when my company agreed to transfer me?
Additionally, I have a vacation planned before I start the new job if I choose to take it. Should I put in 3 weeks notice before my vacation or put in 2 weeks notice when I get back?