I am an undergraduate. In my internship last summer, I did my job well and I could feel that he genuinely liked and recognized me. He was great and I was in a great team. However, I always want to try different things so I accepted an internship from a different company for the next summer. I have told the recruiter from the last company and my mentor should have already known that I would not return. However, should I still send an email directly to my mentor asking about his recent days, telling my plan, and etc.? I don't want to just lose connection with him, but it's obviously a little bit awkward as I will go to a different company. So could I know what is the proper things to do now? For example, should I just send him an email and be grateful? Or is being slient the most appropriate action? Thank you very much.

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    few old people sit around wishing they kept up fewer connections over their life. You never know where or when the connection will come in handy.
    – dandavis
    Commented Feb 11, 2020 at 22:01
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    This is the whole principle of LinkedIn! You had a good working relationship. You absolutely should build a network and this seems like a good start to one.
    – SemiGeek
    Commented Feb 11, 2020 at 22:21

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Usually, not much can go wrong with a simple and polite 'Thank you' - Email. You'll usually not burn any bridges, unless your mentor is some kind of jerk, and most people will see it as the polite way to handle things.

If you want to stay in contact, mention it. Just accept it if your mentor decides otherwise.

  • Got it. Thank you. Yeah, maybe I just concerned too much.
    – Danny
    Commented Feb 11, 2020 at 21:21
  • dont worry, that's normal for interns with limited experience with professional relationships. i had the same thoughts back in the days.
    – d_hippo
    Commented Feb 11, 2020 at 21:24
  • Indeed, a summer internship is not a lifelong commitment and nobody expects it to be. But if it went well and you got along with your mentor, staying in contact is a good thing. LinkedIn or occasionally going for coffee to catch up is good.
    – ObscureOwl
    Commented Feb 13, 2020 at 8:50

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