I work at a relatively small company that provides a team of developers and a project manager/product owner for a project as consultants to another small company. I'm working on the project full time. Both companies are in Europe.

Recently, my boss contacted me that the client company wants to make me an offer to change companies. He told me that if I strongly felt like changing, that would be ok. At the same time, he emphasized that he wants to keep me. Quite some time was also spent by him down-talking the opportunity and giving me a very short time window to make a decision. The exact content of that offer is not clear to me, but the responsibilities would likely be the same as I have now. Before those talks there were also talks of an opportunity for a role change within my company that might realize in a few months.

I like to work at my company, but I'm naturally curious about that offer. I could also imagine to work for the client company directly in the future. My concern is that if I explore that offer, my chances for the internal opportunity might be lowered. At the same time, I somehow feel like I owe the client company at least a statement that I appreciate the interest.

How can I proceed in a professional manner without lowering the chances for internal opportunities and without burning bridges at the client company?

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I somehow feel like I owe the client company at least a statement that I appreciate the interest

You owe nothing, no direct interest was given.

This isn't something to pursue third hand, you never know if there are agendas at play that you're not privy to. It can potentially blow up. The option of maintaining status quo will have positive effects and is what you were going to do anyway so is basically a bonus.

  • Very helpful. Thank you very much.
    – bopaden414
    Jun 22, 2020 at 8:55
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    'It can potentially blow up' ..and could lead to a potential disaster where both bridges might be burned. I fully agree that handling such things via a third hand party is never a good idea. If they are really interested they should contact the person directly with a serious offer..
    – iLuvLogix
    Jun 23, 2020 at 6:28

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