My partner has had a new job for just under a year now. The company is small and has about 50 employees.
My partner handed over his friend's CV. Friend gets an offer letter for the job. My boyfriend and his mate didn't see each other for a year due to COVID-19. After this we meet up at our house and his mate arrives high from weed, and he had driven a substantial distance this way.
Next day my partner called his friend to call him out on his behavior, but when my boyfriend said he shouldn't drive whilst being high, he said to my boyfriend that he is being judgmental.
What should my boyfriend do? Should he let this person come and work at this company while risking his name for vouching for him or should he tell his boss, the director of the company about this experience? Or should he just let the person come to work without saying anything and see what happens?
We are worried he might turn up at work high; if you drive like this that might mean you become capable of a lot of things. They have known each other for some years and my boyfriend said he was out of character. They don't talk a lot recently and as I mentioned before they didn't meet for a year.
At the moment he has an unconditional offer and he will start in about 3 weeks time.