I'm working with another student as part of an organization at my university, and we've been texting each other lately. Through these conversations, I've realized that she is very verbose in her responses in which she uses big words and sophisticated vocabulary for simple ideas (especially since these are just text messages). In addition, I have received the impression that she is speaking down to me. She assumed that I didn't understand basic social skills (For example, when I was arranging a time to meet with her to discuss an issue, she kept warning me that she might not be able to completely help me. She did this despite the fact we both already understood that, and I kept reminding her that I understood that.)
I understand that she's trying to act as professional as possible, but I feel the need to explain this to her. It's not a big issue, though. I assume she does this to me since she is the leader of the organization, and she wants to act as professional as possible. But I want to let her know that I don't appreciate it.
Would it be appropriate for me to let her know I feel this way?
edit: grammar and fixed some sentence issues