When I hired with the company I'm with right now, I negotiated a flex agreement, saying that every other Friday I'd have off. I have the email in which that was agreed to, and everybody's been happy with the agreement.

On Thursday, however, the boss with whom I negotiated that arrangement was let go. Because I've done a really good job, the old boss' supervisor would like to promote me to my old boss' slot. One problem, he says, however is that he's a little concerned about how I seem to be working from home "a lot."

Upon hearing of the arrangement, he now "understands," but isn't sure if he can promote me under the current arrangement. What would be the best way to try to keep this flexible arrangement but still get promoted?

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    What are the two positions (current position and promotion position)? Every place I've ever worked has limited the ability to use flex schedules to those who could do their job from home and not every position qualifies for this scheduling arrangement. Apr 10, 2012 at 19:31
  • Do you have every other Friday off, or are you working from home on those days?
    – Brandon
    Apr 10, 2012 at 19:42
  • In both cases, I'm supporting a web hosting company, making sure the servers stay up. In the managerial role, I'd simply be providing leadership to the other techs as well. Apr 10, 2012 at 19:45
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    I should be taking every other Friday off but you know how it is when there is too much work and too few people. Apr 10, 2012 at 19:46

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Remember that in a work-at-home situation, the onus is on you to demonstrate value. One technique that some of my co-workers use is to send an email at the beginning of the day, describing their plan for the day, and at the end of the day, outlining what they accomplished.

Err on the side of overcommunicating when you're working at home. Give them no reason at all to be suspicious.


The promotion is a new role with new terms and conditions. You need to discuss with your new boss whether it's practicable for you to be out of the office every other Friday.

You can't assume that your current arrangement will carry over.

If you don't take the promotion you should be able to keep the current arrangement - your contract hasn't changed just because your boss has, and you have it in writing. Well assuming that your company treats e-mails as equivalent to letters and someone else (preferably in HR) was copied into the e-mail.

  • "and you have it in writing" - not sure about that. An email from an old boss is hardly binding on a new boss. Apr 10, 2012 at 19:44
  • @AdamRackis - well it depends who else was copied in on the e-mail and whether e-mails are equivalent to letters in your organisation. But I take your point.
    – ChrisF
    Apr 10, 2012 at 19:45
  • The request actually went through the head of HR before I accepted the position, but yeah, point taken... Apr 27, 2012 at 1:59

Wow - lots of great answers... putting a few things together, I'd offer:

  • Determine the expectations of the new position before signing on. Any promotion is a change in expectations, but the most profound is usually the one from individual contributor to manager. At that point, you become much more a representative of the organization and its values than you were before, and that is bound to come with expectation changes. A big question is - does the organization espouse a work-from-home tolerant philosophy? By creating a supervisor with this work-agreement, they are saying to everyone else "this is OK", and the boss may or may not be ready to do that.

  • Find win conditions to staying at home - for example is it possible that you can move all your "sit alone and think" work to your day at home, which may allow you to minimize disruptions - often I have suceeded at diverging from my boss' "norm" by highlighting how he's getting more bang for the buck from me doing things differently.

  • Be sure that even at home your communication channels are open - if you are hard to reach or perceived as unresponsive, there will be more pushback, as a supervisor must be both easy to reach and responsive.

  • Be aware and engaged in talking through the bosses perceptions of how others in the team may react. The boss may not be worried about you, per se, but another person on your team. In which case, you and he may be able to talk through these team issues and find resolutions that don't involve you giving up your work/life balance.


This also gets to a matter involving negotiations. If your position is changing, often the expectations will change with it, even if the supervisor wasn't also changing. Also, engage the supervision in a discussion about why he was initially concerned about when you work at home. Dig deep, ask questions, and don't be defensive in case the answers you start to get back aren't what you want/expect. You'll often find that these kinds of things come down to various ways that people approach work, and how they approach supervision of others.

To some extent, this will come down to the new supervisor's management style, and there may not be a ton that you can do about it - this may be the "new way" that things will operate. On the other hand, you might find that your questions lead to the underlying issues (the supervisor doesn't know how to measure productivity/effort unless they can physically see you, or maybe they feel communication is more effective in person, etc.) which will tell you what you'll need to do in order to satisfy the underlying concerns and potential fears.

Clearly, if you've done a good job, and are in the running for this promotion, then you're capable. With any negotiation, you're spending a certain amount of political capital (whether or not you actively engage in politics) on trying to get what you want, so just be aware of that. Maybe the tradeoff is worth it, maybe it isn't.


That's pretty typical for managerial or supervisor positions. It's not as big of a deal for normal developers or even lead positions, but once there's an HR component involved (you do reviews, hiring / firing decisions, etc), you're going to lose a lot of flexibility from your schedule (outside of normal PTO type situations). At least, that's the status quo I've seen in the market over the past decade or so.

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