My grandfather has been in the ICU since thanksgiving after his heart stopped. I was told that they are taking him off the ventilator tonight, and that they were planning the funeral for this weekend. I scheduled a flight, I informed my boss and can take bereavement days. Then I got a text saying my grandpa is sleeping, and he may pass in minutes or days, the doctors can't tell.
So what do I do now? I figure I go anyway, if he is still alive then I can say goodbye at least. Though, if he lives through the weekend and passes next week I'd have to miss the funeral or maybe use vacation days or 'work from home' or something.
The whole thing is odd to me and I'd like to know if I'm doing something clearly wrong as I feel I misled my boss, though all I told him was they were taking him off the ventilator and that my father was scheduling the funeral for this weekend.