There's a coworker in my team who's a good guy, we get along fairly well, but he is very pushy to hang out outside of work and to be honest I'm starting to feel like an excuse machine.
Don't get me wrong - I do have good relationships with people on my team, usually go out for drinks on a Friday, have a good laugh etc. But this one person is constantly asking me to do stuff outside of work. Now I don't want to be rude (I see him 40-45 hours a week!) and I do occasionally take him up on his offers, but it seems the more I take up his offers the more he wants to do stuff.
The problem is he's quite pushy. For example: "want to do x tonight?" "no thank you I'm busy" "what are you doing?" "blah blah" "oh OK how about tomorrow?" Etc.
I do like the guy and I dont want to offend him (I see him for hours every day and I do occasionally like to take him up on his offers to hang out), but he just sometimes struggles to see when I don't want to hang out.