At times I really struggle with my self-confidence, which in my management role (first role) can affect my performance from not being able to make decisions confidently from self-doubt or undervaluing myself.
I think that a lot of it is stemming from insecurities, for example, recently my long term relationship ended and it has put me on a total downer for the last 4 months where I am starting to question myself and general decision making. I now have a job interview lined up where I am worried that this self-doubt is going to affect how I interview and sabotage me.
Prior to moving into this role, when I was a developer, it did not affect me as much since it was not client facing, but in my current role I definitely feel a lot more tested psychologically. Saying that I do enjoy it a lot, and generally doing well in it.
Any tips on how to become a much more confident employee/person? thanks