This is a bit embarrassing for me to explain, but I accidentally ended up dating my coworkers daughter. This is our second date and everything was going well. There was some errands she needed to take care of at the local grocery market and she told me she could get herself home, so I dropped her off. Well I needed to help a friend of mine on the other side of the city for the rest of the day. What I didn't know was that she left her phone in my car! I dropped it off in her mail box really late at night as not to bother her or anyone else. Well, we had a bit of a miscommunication on the phone and she didn't have a way home and wanted me to wait for her (I don't even remember this)...It got very heated and I figured we were through (we aren't seeing each other anymore).
So I thought. Well, my boss came up with this company bonding event where you bring your significant other or family members for drinks/food etc. My boss was speaking about it and naturally I am not interest as I don't have a significant other. One thing led to the next and he told me about how some guy really mad him and his daughter upset not to long ago. He was definitely not pleased about this guy and joking told me of the physical things he would do to someone who did that to her. Well I decided to show up as he's personally asking me to attend these events. So during our first event, as I was greeting everyone, I saw her there. She didn't see me, but I found out that she's definitely my bosses daughter. I quickly left and didn't say a word.
Well now it's coming to Friday for the second time and my boss noted that I left pretty early. I also skipped another one completely. He told me he wants to see me this time for sure, but I don't want to go for the reasons I explained. How can I tactically avoid this potential (and possibly job ending) disaster?