As of May 31, 2023, we have updated our Code of Conduct.
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139 votes
19 answers
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Muslim colleague is uncomfortable with 1:1 meeting and work culture — to what degree should I accommodate?

60 votes
9 answers
16k views

Is it appropriate to speak up for a team member who can't drink due to addiction recovery when a company event is being planned?

57 votes
9 answers
12k views

How can I convince my manager to allow me to take leave to be a prosecution witness in the USA?

50 votes
8 answers
15k views

Wrongfully accused of lending my security badge to another employee

48 votes
6 answers
16k views

Accidentally defaced an internal production website during vulnerability scanning - How do I protect myself

48 votes
9 answers
11k views

Team members are afraid to engage in standup or discuss blocking issues affecting their work

42 votes
10 answers
10k views

Interviewer reaction to question at end of interview

41 votes
6 answers
7k views

How can I pay respect for a recently deceased team member without seeming intrusive?

39 votes
8 answers
16k views

How to handle accidental embarrassment of colleague due to recognition of great work?

34 votes
9 answers
10k views

How to communicate to developers about security vulnerability detected when not included in user stories (requirements) [closed]

31 votes
5 answers
10k views

Recruiter did not show at set appointment

27 votes
4 answers
6k views

Accidentally used a slur in an email to management. How to better recover?

23 votes
9 answers
12k views

How can I accommodate all team members during time limited office hours slot?

22 votes
7 answers
8k views

How to moderate my own attitude based on my manager's feedback

22 votes
13 answers
10k views

Can the word "girl" be derogatory when used to address a well known colleague?

21 votes
8 answers
4k views

Supporting colleague presented with racially discriminatory remark

20 votes
6 answers
3k views

How to avoid discomfort to a coworker when declining a holiday gift

18 votes
10 answers
10k views

How to address team member who excessively defers to me and is unwilling to give clear feedback

15 votes
7 answers
2k views

Maintaining relationships with coworkers when working in a politically unpopular department

14 votes
6 answers
3k views

Handling fallout due to new security policies

13 votes
2 answers
889 views

Suggestions for declining recommending a person for a position

11 votes
1 answer
3k views

Possible fraudulent mail received regarding employee benefits

10 votes
2 answers
3k views

Connecting with interviewer on LinkedIn post interview

8 votes
2 answers
4k views

Note taking during Interview

8 votes
6 answers
3k views

Was I too aggressive with this interview question

8 votes
5 answers
2k views

How to tell junior team member that particular certification may be not right for them at this time without being demoralizing?

8 votes
8 answers
1k views

How can I help developers reduce amount of instant messages to my team?

7 votes
3 answers
1k views

How can I help team members be more discreet and judicious?

6 votes
1 answer
3k views

Reporting possible damage to company owned IT equipment

6 votes
3 answers
567 views

How to evaluate the legitimacy of an outside recruiter

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