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Anthony
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141 votes
19 answers
26k views

Muslim colleague is uncomfortable with 1:1 meeting and work culture — to what degree should I accommodate?

63 votes
9 answers
17k views

Is it appropriate to speak up for a team member who can't drink due to addiction recovery when a company event is being planned?

56 votes
9 answers
12k views

How can I convince my manager to allow me to take leave to be a prosecution witness in the USA?

50 votes
8 answers
16k views

Wrongfully accused of lending my security badge to another employee

49 votes
7 answers
14k views

How to professionally decline nightlife drinking with colleagues on international trip to Japan?

48 votes
6 answers
16k views

Accidentally defaced an internal production website during vulnerability scanning - How do I protect myself

47 votes
9 answers
11k views

Team members are afraid to engage in standup or discuss blocking issues affecting their work

42 votes
10 answers
11k views

Interviewer reaction to question at end of interview

41 votes
6 answers
8k views

How can I pay respect for a recently deceased team member without seeming intrusive?

38 votes
8 answers
17k views

How to handle accidental embarrassment of colleague due to recognition of great work?

33 votes
9 answers
10k views

How to communicate to developers about security vulnerability detected when not included in user stories (requirements) [closed]

31 votes
5 answers
10k views

Recruiter did not show at set appointment

27 votes
4 answers
7k views

Accidentally used a slur in an email to management. How to better recover?

24 votes
4 answers
14k views

How can I state to junior engineers to not work a ticket unless he / she can own the task without demoralizing?

23 votes
13 answers
11k views

Can the word "girl" be derogatory when used to address a well known colleague?

23 votes
7 answers
8k views

How to moderate my own attitude based on my manager's feedback

23 votes
9 answers
12k views

How can I accommodate all team members during time limited office hours slot?

21 votes
8 answers
4k views

Supporting colleague presented with racially discriminatory remark

21 votes
9 answers
16k views

Should I send an email to African American colleagues given a recent nearby targeted crime?

20 votes
10 answers
12k views

How can a cybersecurity team mitigate internal customer complaints that real time user training is too intrusive?

20 votes
6 answers
3k views

How to avoid discomfort to a coworker when declining a holiday gift

18 votes
6 answers
12k views

How to handle boss' team invitation to go to a bar, when my coworker is an alcoholic in recovery?

18 votes
10 answers
10k views

How to address team member who excessively defers to me and is unwilling to give clear feedback

15 votes
7 answers
14k views

Is hugging and handshakes between colleagues in Japan as a form of greeting a faux pas?

15 votes
7 answers
2k views

Maintaining relationships with coworkers when working in a politically unpopular department

14 votes
6 answers
3k views

Handling fallout due to new security policies

13 votes
2 answers
1k views

Suggestions for declining recommending a person for a position

12 votes
3 answers
10k views

How to avoid conflict of interest when dating another employee in a matrix management company?

11 votes
1 answer
3k views

Possible fraudulent mail received regarding employee benefits

10 votes
2 answers
3k views

Connecting with interviewer on LinkedIn post interview

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