Timeline for How to handle hostile comments by the CTO which imply I'm making mistakes?
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| May 17, 2019 at 13:46 | answer | added | Czar | timeline score: 2 | |
| May 16, 2019 at 22:35 | history | edited | Just a Programmer | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Apr 17, 2019 at 12:00 | comment | added | Fattie | "Most everyone is also very experienced." You clearly think you're better than everyone (and it's possible you are - you might be the first "pro" member on a garage team). It is tough to go out of your way to be polite when you are criticizing. In all your examples, you were criticizing the current situation (and the guy snapped back at you). You have to be exceptionally diplomatic in pointing out problems. It's tough. | |
| Apr 17, 2019 at 10:03 | answer | added | motosubatsu♦ | timeline score: 12 | |
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| Apr 17, 2019 at 5:42 | history | edited | Just a Programmer | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Apr 17, 2019 at 5:16 | comment | added | Just a Programmer | All possible. I checked as far back in the messages as I had time for ... dozens and dozens of his posts. And I did see one other that was a bit rough: naming a couple of other staff who are supposedly not getting back to him quickly. (I wouldn't do that publicly, nor in the way he wrote it.) So there's a bit of a pattern. | |
| Apr 17, 2019 at 3:23 | comment | added | Justin Cave | Are you certain that this coworker is singling you out? Could it be that he simply tends to be curt or at least appear curt in chat? Email and chat are notoriously difficult to communicate emotion and intent and can easily come off more harshly than they were intended. If you're all remote and from different regions with potentially different linguistic and cultural backgrounds, that just compounds the issue. | |
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