Timeline for How to keep good professional relationship with manager whom I like
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| Feb 7, 2023 at 9:08 | comment | added | Madam Curie | May be you are true. I will stop connecting with him, and ignore his advances. But that might disconnect us forever .. let it be. | |
| Feb 7, 2023 at 6:14 | comment | added | keshlam | Feelings are OFTEN one-sided. And you are doing an excellent job of driving him away by crowding him. The only way you can fix the professional relationship is to accept that and stop trying to convince yourself of a falsehood just because you want it to be true. I know it hurts to hear that, but that's the reality. But since if you don't knock it off you're likely to get yourself fired, this may be self-correcting. | |
| Feb 7, 2023 at 4:06 | comment | added | Madam Curie | Feelings are never one-sided. He has started liking me first, that's why I started liking him. He is clever enough to keep his liking under hood, and my feelings went open. I do speak to him related to work only, and have no intention to speak other things. Our professional relationship is getting spoiled, that's why wanted suggestion how to keep it good. | |
| Feb 5, 2023 at 19:49 | comment | added | keshlam | And the difference between friendship, love, and a crush. A crush is not love, and can kill a friendship. Not to mention being inappropriate in an office setting, especially between people in the same management chain and most particularly when one of those people has any managerial authority over the other As one IBM new-hire briefing put it, "Sex is forbidden on company time or property." (Well, actually he said "or furniture", but they would probably object to sneaking off into the shrubbery too.) | |
| Feb 5, 2023 at 16:56 | history | answered | Philip Kendall | CC BY-SA 4.0 |