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May 27, 2015 at 21:38 answer added Aaron timeline score: 1
May 27, 2015 at 21:33 comment added dalawh @DJClayworth Thanks for the help. I know there is no magic spell for doing these type of things, but I just want to make sure I don't say the wrong things or go too far.
May 27, 2015 at 21:32 answer added Myles timeline score: 1
May 27, 2015 at 21:32 comment added dalawh @keshlam I am pretty willing at this point. As much as I don't want to lose them, I really want that extra amount.
May 27, 2015 at 21:29 comment added Jane S @DJClayworth Can you make that an answer? I would upvote it :)
May 27, 2015 at 21:29 history edited dalawh CC BY-SA 3.0
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May 27, 2015 at 21:27 comment added DJClayworth Then this is really simple. You say "I will accept your offer if you add a signing bonus of $X". There is no magic spell for doing these things.
May 27, 2015 at 21:26 comment added keshlam How willing are you to risk that they decide you're too much trouble and/or too expensive and hire the other guy? Meeting halfway is a fairly reasonable outcome, especially since it is salary and the difference accumulates over time. But if you really can't accept that second offer, assume that you're walking away.
May 27, 2015 at 21:25 comment added dalawh @DJClayworth I did not agree yet. Sorry for the poor choice of words.
May 27, 2015 at 21:24 comment added DJClayworth Myles asked the important question - did you agree to the 'halfway' offer or not?
May 27, 2015 at 21:23 comment added dalawh @Myles How would you suggest I phrase the ongoing negotiation?
May 27, 2015 at 21:23 comment added dalawh @enderland They responded with an offer that was half of what I proposed in my counteroffer. It was by email, but does that matter?
May 27, 2015 at 21:20 comment added Myles Did you agree to the meeting halfway? If not you are still in negotiations, so just make a counter to their counter offer. If you are getting cold feet after the fact, you need to stand by the agreements that you made.
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May 27, 2015 at 20:57 comment added enderland How did they "ended up meeting me half way" work? Was it just an email response with a new offer? Or was it in person? etc
May 27, 2015 at 20:55 history asked dalawh CC BY-SA 3.0