Sorry to hear about that!
I was recently reading an article about highly successful losershow people handle negative events by Paddy Upton(South African Cricket Team Leadership coach)
In the end, he summarized these critical points to overcome disappointment/stress:
- Feel the feeling – find it (sinking feeling in your stomach, a heaviness in your chest, tightness in the throat, heat in the forehead, etc because of stress) in your body, acknowledge it, and watch it subside.
- Accept the result – it‘s part of sport and life. Assess the processes later
- Support others – self-focus sinks, helping others uplifts
- Reflect on preparation – what did you do well, what can you do better next time?
- Reflect on the event – what did you do well, what will you do differently next time?
- Commit to action – write it down, commit to action, ask for support.
I believe few of aforesaid points will help you reduce stress and concentrate on objectives again.