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I ended up giving my two-weeks notice. My manager asked if there was anything they could do to keep me around or make things better for me at my current position, to which I very vaguely responded that there wouldn't be, and that it just wasn't a good fit for me. I ended up just telling my manager I'd be leaving over the phone, after sending him a message asking for a meeting (We live on opposite ends of country so couldn't talk in person), instead of writing out my notice on a document.


If someone intended to resign a position at their current job, and did not want to give any specific reasons for leaving, would this be unprofessional?

It seems to me that it's 'expected' that you give some sort of reason / feedback for leaving.


Quite frankly, I'd like to leave my current position. Management 'listens' to issues, but does not act to resolve them. So I feel that it would be a waste of my time to re-iterate a long list of things that have been communicated over time and more or less ignored as my reason(s) for leaving. Not to mention trying to pick 'one' specific reason or a few, when really it's just a culmination of things about this position - the company really, more than the position - that make me want to find opportunities elsewhere.

When the time comes, I'd like to know whether it's acceptable to say something along the lines of the following (Cleaned up a bit of course, but you get the idea):

"Hello,

I will be resigning from the position of [Current position] at [Current Company] on [Month and Day]/[Year].

I do not wish to give a specific reason for leaving. I do not wish to be retained, please do not submit a counter offer."

I just want things between me and this company to be more or less done. I'm sure they'll try, and try hard, to retain me and find a way to keep me here, as it's a small company and I've had major contributions to the team and several projects that I've been the only one to work on.


Regardless, I've wanted to leave for a long time. At the time that I give my notice, there's literally no offer that will convince me to stay here, and I'm having trouble finding a polite way of conveying that. They already compensate me more than well enough, and I can not possibly think of anything they could 'give' me to make me happier here.

The problem lies directly with the way the company is run, and there hasn't been any progress on fixing core issues there in the entire time I've been working here.

Is there a professional / polite way of resigning from a position, not giving a reason and asking the company not to provide a counter offer?


Note:

I'm not very concerned about the concept of 'burning bridges', beyond the concept that I'd rather not have negative things said of me if a future employer contacted this one to ask about me. I don't see myself ever returning to this employer - small company - or doing much future work with any of my current coworkers. On that note, I am on good terms with my current coworkers, there's just a large issue with the company that's making things difficult for all of the employees. Others have left, and I'm fairly certain I'll be next, in the coming weeks.

If someone intended to resign a position at their current job, and did not want to give any specific reasons for leaving, would this be unprofessional?

It seems to me that it's 'expected' that you give some sort of reason / feedback for leaving.


Quite frankly, I'd like to leave my current position. Management 'listens' to issues, but does not act to resolve them. So I feel that it would be a waste of my time to re-iterate a long list of things that have been communicated over time and more or less ignored as my reason(s) for leaving. Not to mention trying to pick 'one' specific reason or a few, when really it's just a culmination of things about this position - the company really, more than the position - that make me want to find opportunities elsewhere.

When the time comes, I'd like to know whether it's acceptable to say something along the lines of the following (Cleaned up a bit of course, but you get the idea):

"Hello,

I will be resigning from the position of [Current position] at [Current Company] on [Month and Day]/[Year].

I do not wish to give a specific reason for leaving. I do not wish to be retained, please do not submit a counter offer."

I just want things between me and this company to be more or less done. I'm sure they'll try, and try hard, to retain me and find a way to keep me here, as it's a small company and I've had major contributions to the team and several projects that I've been the only one to work on.


Regardless, I've wanted to leave for a long time. At the time that I give my notice, there's literally no offer that will convince me to stay here, and I'm having trouble finding a polite way of conveying that. They already compensate me more than well enough, and I can not possibly think of anything they could 'give' me to make me happier here.

The problem lies directly with the way the company is run, and there hasn't been any progress on fixing core issues there in the entire time I've been working here.

Is there a professional / polite way of resigning from a position, not giving a reason and asking the company not to provide a counter offer?


Note:

I'm not very concerned about the concept of 'burning bridges', beyond the concept that I'd rather not have negative things said of me if a future employer contacted this one to ask about me. I don't see myself ever returning to this employer - small company - or doing much future work with any of my current coworkers. On that note, I am on good terms with my current coworkers, there's just a large issue with the company that's making things difficult for all of the employees. Others have left, and I'm fairly certain I'll be next, in the coming weeks.

Update:

I ended up giving my two-weeks notice. My manager asked if there was anything they could do to keep me around or make things better for me at my current position, to which I very vaguely responded that there wouldn't be, and that it just wasn't a good fit for me. I ended up just telling my manager I'd be leaving over the phone, after sending him a message asking for a meeting (We live on opposite ends of country so couldn't talk in person), instead of writing out my notice on a document.


If someone intended to resign a position at their current job, and did not want to give any specific reasons for leaving, would this be unprofessional?

It seems to me that it's 'expected' that you give some sort of reason / feedback for leaving.


Quite frankly, I'd like to leave my current position. Management 'listens' to issues, but does not act to resolve them. So I feel that it would be a waste of my time to re-iterate a long list of things that have been communicated over time and more or less ignored as my reason(s) for leaving. Not to mention trying to pick 'one' specific reason or a few, when really it's just a culmination of things about this position - the company really, more than the position - that make me want to find opportunities elsewhere.

When the time comes, I'd like to know whether it's acceptable to say something along the lines of the following (Cleaned up a bit of course, but you get the idea):

"Hello,

I will be resigning from the position of [Current position] at [Current Company] on [Month and Day]/[Year].

I do not wish to give a specific reason for leaving. I do not wish to be retained, please do not submit a counter offer."

I just want things between me and this company to be more or less done. I'm sure they'll try, and try hard, to retain me and find a way to keep me here, as it's a small company and I've had major contributions to the team and several projects that I've been the only one to work on.


Regardless, I've wanted to leave for a long time. At the time that I give my notice, there's literally no offer that will convince me to stay here, and I'm having trouble finding a polite way of conveying that. They already compensate me more than well enough, and I can not possibly think of anything they could 'give' me to make me happier here.

The problem lies directly with the way the company is run, and there hasn't been any progress on fixing core issues there in the entire time I've been working here.

Is there a professional / polite way of resigning from a position, not giving a reason and asking the company not to provide a counter offer?


Note:

I'm not very concerned about the concept of 'burning bridges', beyond the concept that I'd rather not have negative things said of me if a future employer contacted this one to ask about me. I don't see myself ever returning to this employer - small company - or doing much future work with any of my current coworkers. On that note, I am on good terms with my current coworkers, there's just a large issue with the company that's making things difficult for all of the employees. Others have left, and I'm fairly certain I'll be next, in the coming weeks.

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Do Can you havedecline to give a reason, and ask to not attempt to be retained when you resign?

If someone intended to resign a position at their current job, and did not want to give any specific reasons for leaving, would this be unprofessional?

It seems to me that it's 'expected' that you give some sort of reason / feedback for leaving.


Quite frankly, I'd like to leave my current position. Management 'listens' to issues, but does not act to resolve them. So I feel that it would be a waste of my time to re-iterate a long list of things that have been communicated over time and more or less ignored as my reason(s) for leaving. Not to mention trying to pick 'one' specific reason or a few, when really it's just a culmination of things about this position - the company really, more than the position - that make me want to find opportunities elsewhere.

When the time comes, I'd like to know whether it's acceptable to say something along the lines of the following (Cleaned up a bit of course, but you get the idea):

"Hello,

I will be resigning from the position of [Current position] at [Current Company] on [Month and Day]/[Year].

I do not wish to give a specific reason for leaving. I do not wish to be retained, please do not submit a counter offer."

I just want things between me and this company to be more or less done. I'm sure they'll try, and try hard, to retain me and find a way to keep me here, as it's a small company and I've had major contributions to the team and several projects that I've been the only one to work on.


Regardless, I've wanted to leave for a long time. At the time that I give my notice, there's literally no offer that will convince me to stay here, and I'm having trouble finding a polite way of conveying that. They already compensate me more than well enough, and I can not possibly think of anything they could 'give' me to make me happier here.

The problem lies directly with the way the company is run, and there hasn't been any progress on fixing core issues there in the entire time I've been working here.

Is there a professional / polite way of resigning from a position, not giving a reason and asking the company not to provide a counter offer?


Note:

I'm not very concerned about the concept of 'burning bridges', beyond the concept that I'd rather not have negative things said of me if a future employer contacted this one to ask about me. I don't see myself ever returning to this employer - small company - or doing much future work with any of my current coworkers. On that note, I am on good terms with my current coworkers, there's just a large issue with the company that's making things difficult for all of the employees. Others have left, and I'm fairly certain I'll be next, in the coming weeks.

Do you have to give a reason when you resign?

If someone intended to resign a position at their current job, and did not want to give any specific reasons for leaving, would this be unprofessional?

It seems to me that it's 'expected' that you give some sort of reason / feedback for leaving.


Quite frankly, I'd like to leave my current position. Management 'listens' to issues, but does not act to resolve them. So I feel that it would be a waste of my time to re-iterate a long list of things that have been communicated over time and more or less ignored as my reason(s) for leaving. Not to mention trying to pick 'one' specific reason or a few, when really it's just a culmination of things about this position - the company really, more than the position - that make me want to find opportunities elsewhere.

When the time comes, I'd like to know whether it's acceptable to say something along the lines of the following (Cleaned up a bit of course, but you get the idea):

"Hello,

I will be resigning from the position of [Current position] at [Current Company] on [Month and Day]/[Year].

I do not wish to give a specific reason for leaving. I do not wish to be retained, please do not submit a counter offer."

I just want things between me and this company to be more or less done. I'm sure they'll try, and try hard, to retain me and find a way to keep me here, as it's a small company and I've had major contributions to the team and several projects that I've been the only one to work on.


Regardless, I've wanted to leave for a long time. At the time that I give my notice, there's literally no offer that will convince me to stay here, and I'm having trouble finding a polite way of conveying that. They already compensate me more than well enough, and I can not possibly think of anything they could 'give' me to make me happier here.

The problem lies directly with the way the company is run, and there hasn't been any progress on fixing core issues there in the entire time I've been working here.

Is there a professional / polite way of resigning from a position, not giving a reason and asking the company not to provide a counter offer?

Can you decline to give a reason, and ask to not attempt to be retained when you resign?

If someone intended to resign a position at their current job, and did not want to give any specific reasons for leaving, would this be unprofessional?

It seems to me that it's 'expected' that you give some sort of reason / feedback for leaving.


Quite frankly, I'd like to leave my current position. Management 'listens' to issues, but does not act to resolve them. So I feel that it would be a waste of my time to re-iterate a long list of things that have been communicated over time and more or less ignored as my reason(s) for leaving. Not to mention trying to pick 'one' specific reason or a few, when really it's just a culmination of things about this position - the company really, more than the position - that make me want to find opportunities elsewhere.

When the time comes, I'd like to know whether it's acceptable to say something along the lines of the following (Cleaned up a bit of course, but you get the idea):

"Hello,

I will be resigning from the position of [Current position] at [Current Company] on [Month and Day]/[Year].

I do not wish to give a specific reason for leaving. I do not wish to be retained, please do not submit a counter offer."

I just want things between me and this company to be more or less done. I'm sure they'll try, and try hard, to retain me and find a way to keep me here, as it's a small company and I've had major contributions to the team and several projects that I've been the only one to work on.


Regardless, I've wanted to leave for a long time. At the time that I give my notice, there's literally no offer that will convince me to stay here, and I'm having trouble finding a polite way of conveying that. They already compensate me more than well enough, and I can not possibly think of anything they could 'give' me to make me happier here.

The problem lies directly with the way the company is run, and there hasn't been any progress on fixing core issues there in the entire time I've been working here.

Is there a professional / polite way of resigning from a position, not giving a reason and asking the company not to provide a counter offer?


Note:

I'm not very concerned about the concept of 'burning bridges', beyond the concept that I'd rather not have negative things said of me if a future employer contacted this one to ask about me. I don't see myself ever returning to this employer - small company - or doing much future work with any of my current coworkers. On that note, I am on good terms with my current coworkers, there's just a large issue with the company that's making things difficult for all of the employees. Others have left, and I'm fairly certain I'll be next, in the coming weeks.

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Do you have to give a reason when you resign?

If someone intended to resign a position at their current job, and did not want to give any specific reasons for leaving, would this be unprofessional?

It seems to me that it's 'expected' that you give some sort of reason / feedback for leaving.


Quite frankly, I'd like to leave my current position. Management 'listens' to issues, but does not act to resolve them. So I feel that it would be a waste of my time to re-iterate a long list of things that have been communicated over time and more or less ignored as my reason(s) for leaving. Not to mention trying to pick 'one' specific reason or a few, when really it's just a culmination of things about this position - the company really, more than the position - that make me want to find opportunities elsewhere.

When the time comes, I'd like to know whether it's acceptable to say something along the lines of the following (Cleaned up a bit of course, but you get the idea):

"Hello,

I will be resigning from the position of [Current position] at [Current Company] on [Month and Day]/[Year].

I do not wish to give a specific reason for leaving. I do not wish to be retained, please do not submit a counter offer."

I just want things between me and this company to be more or less done. I'm sure they'll try, and try hard, to retain me and find a way to keep me here, as it's a small company and I've had major contributions to the team and several projects that I've been the only one to work on.


Regardless, I've wanted to leave for a long time. At the time that I give my notice, there's literally no offer that will convince me to stay here, and I'm having trouble finding a polite way of conveying that. They already compensate me more than well enough, and I can not possibly think of anything they could 'give' me to make me happier here.

The problem lies directly with the way the company is run, and there hasn't been any progress on fixing core issues there in the entire time I've been working here.

Is there a professional / polite way of resigning from a position, not giving a reason and asking the company not to provide a counter offer?