TLDR; Can I use the fact that I'm a remote employee and thus no longer use several company benefits (that I originally used when in a physical office i.e. Commuter reimbursement, free lunch on fridays) as a basis for a raise?
I've worked for my company for 4 years, 2 of them being remote. I became a remote employee out of personal necessity to follow my spouse across the states for her new job (I'm assuming that it's a factor in the discussion that it was me who requested the remote work and not the employer).
So while this was beneficial to me and I am grateful for the opportunity, I can't help but wonder how much the company has saved from me becoming a remote employee. When I signed on, I benefited from free catered lunches on Fridays, commuter reimbursement, occasional team happy hours etc. Not to mention the fact that they didn't have to supply me with monitors, keyboard, desk, chair etc.
Is the fact that I no longer use / have access to these benefits a reasonable basis for a raise?