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I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort".

This doesn't feel like direct harassment but it was also pretty uncomfortable and awkward. I'm unsure what to do in this situation. I've thought about it, and am thinking of different approaches:

  • Talk to him directly.
  • Bring it up with HR
  • Talk to management

I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened, so I want to make sure I take the right action.

I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort".

I'm unsure what to do in this situation. I've thought about it, and am thinking of different approaches:

  • Talk to him directly.
  • Bring it up with HR
  • Talk to management

I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened, so I want to make sure I take the right action.

I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort".

This doesn't feel like direct harassment but it was also pretty uncomfortable and awkward. I'm unsure what to do in this situation. I've thought about it, and am thinking of different approaches:

  • Talk to him directly.
  • Bring it up with HR
  • Talk to management

I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened, so I want to make sure I take the right action.

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I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort".

I'm unsure what to do in this situation because I don't know how to interpret it

. I've thought about it, and am thinking of different approaches:

  • Talk to him directly.
  • Bring it up with HR
  • Talk to management

I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened, so I want to make sure I take the right action.

I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort".

I'm unsure what to do in this situation because I don't know how to interpret it

I've thought about it, and am thinking of different approaches:

  • Talk to him directly.
  • Bring it up with HR
  • Talk to management

I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened, so I want to make sure I take the right action.

I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort".

I'm unsure what to do in this situation. I've thought about it, and am thinking of different approaches:

  • Talk to him directly.
  • Bring it up with HR
  • Talk to management

I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened, so I want to make sure I take the right action.

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I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort". This doesn't feel like direct harassment but it was also pretty uncomfortable and awkward.

What should II'm unsure what to do in this situation? Do because I talkdon't know how to him directly? Do I bringinterpret it up with HR in case he retaliates when I do bring

I've thought about it up? For context, and am thinking of different approaches:

  • Talk to him directly.
  • Bring it up with HR
  • Talk to management

I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened and was unexpected, so I want to make sure I take the right action.

I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort". This doesn't feel like direct harassment but it was also pretty uncomfortable and awkward.

What should I do in this situation? Do I talk to him directly? Do I bring it up with HR in case he retaliates when I do bring it up? For context, I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened and was unexpected.

I was on-call last night with a coworker. I was wearing a bit of makeup, and at the end of the call, he comments "omg haha are you wearing makeup?". I said oh its for such and such. And, he responds with "oh good you still make an effort".

I'm unsure what to do in this situation because I don't know how to interpret it

I've thought about it, and am thinking of different approaches:

  • Talk to him directly.
  • Bring it up with HR
  • Talk to management

I am the youngest on the team and he is probably around 7 years my senior. This is the first time its happened, so I want to make sure I take the right action.

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