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An employee lying to Store manager

You can't do much at all because of the relationship between the two of them. Don't get yourself in trouble, when ordering her to do things (do you actually have that authority?) make sure it's with o …
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How should I deal with these co-workers who benefit at my expense?

You need to tell them to butt out. Unless one of your contracted tasks is to train others, then there is no need to do so unless you feel like it. I lock my machine whenever I leave the desk, and tell …
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4 votes

How to balance scientific integrity with marketing needs?

It's normal enough in some industries and some jobs. People want their job to be easier, if you're willing to help them do that, then they'll get you to. If it helps sales, downplays blemishes or anyt …
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How to convince users to follow a new policy when they're used to work under a wrong one

How can we convince our users to forget the past days and follow the new policy without so many complaints? You don't have to, you have the authority, so just make the changes and enforce discipl …
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Is it ethical to contact board members of my employer to participate in my side business?

I see no issue with asking the board members and including this business in your tours or even making it a centrepiece. But I do see a problem with doing it as a side business while still working ther …
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Employee talks to everyone whenever she has a conflict with a coworker

Take her into a meeting and tell her that gossiping of that type is not allowed. If she has issues with co-workers there are already protocols in place to resolve them. And outline them to her while m …
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New programmer want to change a lot of things on a solo project

If you give someone autonomy and they're delivering satisfactorily then protect their autonomy. The new guy owns the project, the other 2 have moved on, they should not have a say.
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How can I get colleagues to makes decisions based off research as opposed to whim?

You want this to happen, make it happen. My strategy is a lot of work, but it gets results. And once you sit down and start logically it's not really as hard as you'd think. Spend less time arguing p …
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4 votes

Isolation in a team

You're a contractor, until you have a lot of experience and respect there you should just be soldiering through the tasks as they are given to you. You don't get to choose your tasks, and you usually …
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After how many rows should one leave the current job/position?

Is there any unwritten rule when should one leave the job if there are some misunderstanding with the boss? General rule of thumb when you're unhappy is to get another job before you quit. Don't …
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I got promoted but my colleague did not

You have a new role, new responsibilities, new authority. You need to make a mental shift to fit that role. Your colleague not getting the role is their problem. It will give you some insight into the …
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Quitting job in the first month due to repeated insult from a colleague and how to leave the...

Please suggest me how I can leave gracefully. If you want to leave on as good terms as possible, then just quietly leave when you have found a new position and thank everyone for the learning experi …
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I'm the toxic person on the team. How do I approach my manager?

The best way to deal with social issues and inability to integrate quietly into a team yet still do well is to go into business for yourself. Many successful businesses are run by people like you. As …
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What is the best course of action if the Head of HR is making unsubstantiated and false accu...

You will get a very interesting insight into both colleagues professionalism and reaction to pressure, additionally you will get some insights into both their immediate manager and the CEO's conflict resolution …
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Coworker who likes to take credit for work that is not theirs

Your colleague is better at showboating than you and he is using you to boost himself, he's heading for promotion. This is common enough. To mitigate against it stop giving away your ideas to him. Ta …
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